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[luvlady345]

Originally Posted by girlsmom

He was responding to a post which named Sadie in a thread entitled, "Lorenzo and Sadie?

Girlsmom, I am with you...Why oh Why would this post be about Jen when it is up under the comment regarding Sadie and Lo, the poster was saying how glad they were that Lo was with Sadie........Now I didn't take sleuthing 101 like some people on the board but to me that is pretty much black and white............

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[ollie'sgal]

All I can say is "poor Sadie" if this is true. I wouldn't want to be told there is someone I want to be with more than you. I wouldn't want to hear that PLo said I thought Jen was drop dead gorgeous when she got out of the limo and I wouldn't want to hear that Jen is the sweetest girl I ever meet. Throughout the show, what I observed was that PLo seemed more interested in Jen than she was with him..maybe she did go back to her old boyfriend.

[girlsmom]

Better than Jen hearing constantly how PLo fell in love with another woman. Also, the participants know what happened outside of the SHOW. We don't. PLo also gave Sadie PLENTY of compliments on her inner and OUTER beauty. Honestly, I'd be more insulted if I were Jen. How much clearer could PLo be that he kept changing his mind, he loved both women AND he only decided on Jen at the VERY last minute and THAt only by a very slim margin. Jen people seem to discount how insulting that would be. Men get confused under enormous strees, that's what they do. It's our job to make them pay for it and then forgive them and go forward.

[KashatheDiva]

I think that is the key here: The participants--Lor, Sadie and Jen really know what went on in the show and the 2 months after. We were shown snippets of pieces edited together to give us a story.
I think they are keeping mum because they still have to, and maybe by Xmas time, when almost a month since the FRC has gone by, we will hear more. Maybe not, they don't owe the public anything. But nothing would surprise me or most of us reading these boards. People were very divided about who his choice would be--and why not? He was TOO!

[ollie'sgal]

I agree girlsmom, I would be insulted if I were Jen too.Maybe that is why she is no longer with him. As romantics we would all like to be, I bet he doesn't end up with either of them in the long run..They all need to move on and I guess everyone else just waits for the next bachelor.

[angelic_one2002]

Originally Posted by snickers

so did this woman on hsn actually say they were "together" together?

i guess what i'm trying to find out is....was she saying its over between jen/plo and now he's with sadie

i too never believed jen/plo were ever a real couple, but the fact that now he's dating sadie seems just odd to me, maybe blob was right, maybe the show truly is scripted and plo wanted to pick sadie but ended up picking jen instead

but i still say, if he liked sadie so much, why did he pick jen

He chose Jen when he did, because he thought she was the one..when he in fact was in love with both women..it probably hasn't worked out with Jen, so he is possibly seeing Sadie now. I can see how this would happen. He said right to the end that there were two women he was in love with. He was clearly really hurt the night he let Sadie go. It was written all over his face.
So if he loved both women, then neither one was really "second place".

[itsyourmom]

Originally Posted by luvlady345

Girlsmom, I am with you...Why oh Why would this post be about Jen when it is up under the comment regarding Sadie and Lo, the poster was saying how glad they were that Lo was with Sadie........Now I didn't take sleuthing 101 like some people on the board but to me that is pretty much black and white............

It was. He said it in the context of people saying how great Sadie was, that she was even better in person. There was no ambiguity. If they are not dating, it is still pretty strange for Skip to remark upon them being together if L is still with Jenn. So, I would say he is not with her anymore. Is he with Sadie now? I don't know. The other HSN conversation was Skip saying his brother was not married and Colleen adding "Yet." And Skip repeated, "Yet" as if it is on the way or something he sees happening. Maybe L and S will have a brief courtship and wed quickly, like someone else in the family. (Can't remember -- parents? brother?) I guess we'll see.

[jelle]

it probably hasn't worked out with Jen, so he is possibly seeing Sadie now.

Maybe L and S will have a brief courtship and wed quickly, like someone else in the family.

This is a pretty big stretch without much evidence.

The participants--Lor, Sadie and Jen really know what went on in the show and the 2 months after. We were shown snippets of pieces edited together to give us a story.
I think they are keeping mum because they still have to,

I agree. We are only shown the Fleiss Fairy Tale. Whatever the reality, it probably bears only a little resemblence to the show. And as you, I suspect, they are in "no comment" mode no matter what the situation.

Men get confused under enormous strees, that's what they do. It's our job to make them pay for it and then forgive them and go forward.

I find this incredibly insulting and not very funny. Seems to be a terribly dishonest way to approach a relationship.

Skip just posted on the HSN Italian Bath and Body bulletin board. Under the Sadie and Lorenzo thread, which basically was applauding Lorenzo and Sadie being together, SKIP posted. "I had dinner with her the other night and she's even better in person." SKIP.

And like the comment from the women about seeing Lorz and Sadie together, what is the big deal of Sadie having dinner with his brother (and I suspect the family)? Obviously they remained friends and why would he not see her. I don't think this necessitates a breakup with Jenn and a budding romance.

I wish he and Sadie all the luck in the world. He WAS truly distraught when he let Sadie go..that was obvious. You just dont act that way when saying goodbye, and not have deep feelings.

I agree - he truly seemed distraught and perhaps he did have deep feelings, but .... Again - that doesn't mean a breakup with Jenn and a budding romance.

Anything is possible, but really .... If the pics on the beach were really as the "pal" claims, why haven't we heard more - someone is always ready to spill. And if Sadie and Lorz are a twosome - where are the pics? (Probably no one really cares ...) And why is anyone the bad guy in this? Everyone fulfilled their contractual obligations. Pretty much, they are free to do as they choose.

[angelic_one2002]

Everything at this point could be a 'big stretch'. Well, we've heard stuff about it not working with Jen, too. You hear all kinds of things. That's my point..we hear things without much evidence. Supposing it's true, I just meant - what would be stopping Lorenzo from picking up where he left off with Sadie, if she's just as willing?? That was my point.

[HotMomma]

Originally Posted by angelic_one2002

Everything at this point could be a 'big stretch'. Well, we've heard stuff about it not working with Jen, too. You hear all kinds of things. That's my point..we hear things without much evidence. Supposing it's true, I just meant - what would be stopping Lorenzo from picking up where he left off with Sadie, if she's just as willing?? That was my point.

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yes I think if he was truely happy with Jen and still dating. to me it seems that Skip would say so! JMO