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Old 12-16-2006, 10:11 AM   #2381
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Here's the blurb from the Post's Page six gossip section. To be honest, this is basicly rehashing a compilation of other gossip sources, (i.e. the National Enquirer's article) and the stuff at HSN... I don't think these guys know anything, they're just fanning the fire!

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December 16, 2006 -- "THE Bachelor" Lorenzo Borghese picked the wrong woman. Turns out Jen, the teacher from Miami, started dating her ex-boyfriend in the months she was forced to be apart from Borghese and won't be reuniting with the hunk from Jersey. But the prince isn't looking back. We hear he's bringing the runner-up, San Diego virgin Sadie, up to New York for a romantic trip.
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There appears to be some very savvy marketing going on here with all of these reports and it’s a little unsettling. Who’s the real winner – Jen? Sadie? Try Royal Pet Treatment, Italian Bath and Body, HSN, and let’s not forget the two Italian jewelry designers….
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You know, I was a huge Sadie fan during the season, but I think it's a bit... squicky if this story turns out to be true that Lorenzo and Sadie are 'together.' I think she was a better match for him, but wow.. I mean, the whole thing just seems so strange to me. The timing more than anything else...

I'm not saying ABC keeps the former contestants under lock and key for six months after the show airs, but uh.. a month is usually pretty standard. Jen and Lorenzo do the rounds and try (somewhat less than convincingly for me) to appear as lovey dovey. And less than two weeks later its over...AND he's with the runner up?

Not to mention that I would think Sadie would make Lorenzo crawl just a wee bit more before even considering trying to have a relationship with him. (Or, maybe that would be me.. ). How would she NOT feel like she's the 'next best choice.' If he came to some startling revelation that he made a mistake after the final episode, why didn't they just re-shoot the finale, a la Jen's season? Otherwise, the timing seems like 'well... it didn't work out with Jen. And I still really like Sadie. And uh...' He must be a better groveler than I thought.

AND for the 'news' to be leaked on HSN? What, does Lorenzo often let his family spill his dirty laundry on TV on a regular basis? That is just bizarre, IMO.

If it's true, that Jen is with Dan (an ex-boyfriend??) and Lorenzo is with Sadie, I wish them all lots of luck. But uh.. yeah. I'm just puzzled and surprised by all of it.
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Oh, yeah, IF Sadie and Lorenzo are dating I would expect him to be an expert graveler, one who realized his mistake within a week after shooting wrapped, and has who been trying to make up for it to Sadie ever since. Who knows what will happen, but I don't see Sadie as being anybody's door mat. I do see you as a young lady who wouldn't cut off her nose to spite her face though. After all, it's been MONTHS since the frc was shot, lots of time to gravel. Guys are known for doing stupid things and getting confused and we ladies have to remember that and forgive them. . .after they do their penance. He possibly began his groveling by repeatedly inferring that his chosen one was not necessarily the one and only love of his life. If Jen was really in love with him I sure would think that SHE'd be upset by all his statements in the interviews. So, whichever one he ends up with, for however long, he has some real groveling to do, imo.
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Secret, I agree with you

I think this is all very strange.
First, I think it is strange that the NE and NYPost are interested at all in two fairly boring people. They made the rounds and are now living their real lives. Who knows if separate or together separated
Second, I can find nothing scandalous about the pics in the NE, only the words of a "pal" informant. And I don't think it has ever been established that "Dan" is a former boyfriend.
Third, I don't think Lorz has any more solid a relationship to pursue with Sadie than with Jenn, if in deed, he did decide two hours before. I too thought they were a better match at the beginning but ... not at the end. Perhaps it is all Fleiss anyway.
Fourth, if Sadie did go to NY, why woud Lorz not see her? and why would his brother not admit to it when someone aparently saw them and commented? I suspect they share a lot of "family" business on the air - sells product. I wonder how the website of the looney-winemaker-princess-aunt increased their sales.

I think because there is no news from anyone, some people are making a big deal out of little stuff. Perhaps Lorz has been in Italy seeing Agnese .....
And if Sadie actually, in real life, "fell in love with him" what has she got to lose in trying again? This time she is in the driver's seat.
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Oh, yeah, IF Sadie and Lorenzo are dating I would expect him to be an expert graveler, one who realized his mistake within a week after shooting wrapped, and has who been trying to make up for it to Sadie ever since. Who knows what will happen, but I don't see Sadie as being anybody's door mat. I do see you as a young lady who wouldn't cut off her nose to spite her face though. After all, it's been MONTHS since the frc was shot, lots of time to gravel. Guys are known for doing stupid things and getting confused and we ladies have to remember that and forgive them. . .after they do their penance. He possibly began his groveling by repeatedly inferring that his chosen one was not necessarily the one and only love of his life. If Jen was really in love with him I sure would think that SHE'd be upset by all his statements in the interviews. So, whichever one he ends up with, for however long, he has some real groveling to do, imo.
I agree if Lorenzo and Sadie are together, I think that it happen right after the FRC he realized that he made a mistake and started the campaign to set things right with all invloved.............In the interviews Sadie and Jen still seem to be friends so I think all involved are ok........
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I was able to find the replay number for Jen and Lorenzo. I know some of this has already been posted. While listening to the call it seemed they both were up beat, happy and sincere in their responses. I think they are going to give their relationship a chance and see what happens.

Did you watch the show together last night?

Jen: We actually had to watch the show separately because of the surprise element. We weren’t allowed to be together. Today-this morning we got to see each other for the first time since I have been in NY.

Jen how long have you been in NY?


Jen: I got here Sunday night

Did you see each other during the airing of the show?

Jen: We both flew out to California for a few days and we were able to spend time together there.

Is the fairytale still going on?


Jen: Yes, we are still very happy and we are definitely together. We are just trying to figure things out and really grow into a relationship now.

Lorenzo are you there?

Lor: I am here. I am taking a moment of silence.

Lorenzo at what point did you decide that Jennifer was the one you were going to pick?

Lor: I decided about two hours before the final rose ceremony. It was a very difficult decision because I had strong feelings for both Jen and Sadie. I felt a little stronger with Jen just because I felt we had more chemistry. I was trying to find faults with both of them and it was almost impossible. I knew I had to make a decision. I felt a little closer to Jen. That’s why I went with what I was feeling at the time and I am very glad I made my decision.

Lorenzo have you had any second thoughts?

Lor: No, Never


Jen how were you feeling at the final rose ceremony?

Jen: I was really overwhelmed and very excited. It was tough because I didn’t know what to expect. I really cared about Sadie too. I knew one of us was going to get a happy ending and I knew one of us was going to go home broken hearted. It was very emotional. It was kind of a roller coaster of emotions if you will. I was very excited and I definitely got the fairy tale ending that any little girl would dream of.

What do you think of the previous success rate of the bachelor couples?

Lor: To me the previous success rate has nothing to do with Jen and I and how we feel together. I look at the whole story and the reality of it and falling in love. I think the show in a way has been successful. I have gone out on many blind dates. If I went out on nine dates and fell in love with any of these girls on one of nine dates I think that is a pretty big success rate. Just because the other bachelors didn’t get married doesn’t mean they didn’t find love on the show. I think these shows are successful because people actually do find love in the moment. What they try to find out after the show is was it just a moment of love or is this really a person I can spend the rest of my life with. I think that’s the stage Jen and I are in right now. We found love on the show. We had a great time. I am very happy I did it and got to know Jen and this is where we stand today.

Was it hard on you both to be separated while the show was airing?

Jen: I made it really difficult to be separated. It was hard when something is so new and so exciting. You are in the moment and then all of a sudden you are kind of ripped apart. It is all about keeping secrets and not telling anyone and not sharing the excitement. And knowing you can only see each other for a short time. You are whisked away for a weekend and then have to lie to everyone about where you are. Challenges are good for any relationship; it either breaks you or makes you stronger. It has definitely helped us to realize what is important and we are still here so….(giggles)

Jen what inspired you to get on the show?


Jen: My mother actually, she told me I wasn’t dating enough in February and printed out the application and said, “You need to do this” I said, “are you crazy Mom?” I kept thinking why not, I should go for it, and I did. At first I was kind of like OK we will see what happens, then I got the calls back, flew out to LA and made it on the show and was really excited. When I got there and met Lorenzo I was really happy because I knew I had met a really great guy and it made it all worth it.

If you get married do you get to be called princess?

Jen: Yes, if that is what happens I will be called Princess Jennifer
Lor: Her father has been calling her princess ever since she was born.

Jen are you leaving Florida?

Jen: I am a schoolteacher and I have to finish the school year with my kids. When May hits I will decide if I will go back to teaching in Florida or not. At that time Lorenzo and me will make a decision that is best for us.

Lorenzo do you have any memory of the first time you saw Jen, did she stand out then, or was it a gradual process?

Lor: It was pretty tough not to remember when I saw her. I remember the exact thing she said to me, she said, “ I am from your home state, Florida.” I said, “I am actually not from Florida, and I hate Florida.” I was only kidding with her. I just remember having a connection with her. It wasn’t love at first sight, because I really don’t believe in love at first sight. Before you fall in love you have to get to know the person and to know what they are about. I think you can have a lust at first sight but not love. I remember I just wanted to get to know her better.

Lorenzo what were your experiences growing up in Short Hills, NJ and how has it set you up for your current life?

Lor: I never fell in love in Short Hills. I went away to boarding school. The first time I fell in love was in boarding school and I dated this girl for nine years. Growing up in Short Hills the only thing I remember was I had a great group of friends and loved the Millburn Deli Sloppy Joes. I loved growing up in Short Hills but it was just my guy friends I became close with and shared a lot of experiences together. I am still good friend with a lot of friends from Short Hills and the Millburn area. Regarding the love aspect of it I never fell in love with a girl from Short Hills or Millburn.

Do you parents still live in Short Hills?


Lor: Yes, I visit them every weekend. I play a lot of tennis and golf out there and go flying out of Morristown.

Are you still the same hometown boy after all of your experiences in Rome?

Lor: I don’t think I have changed at all. I think people expected me to change just because you are on a show. If I thought I was going to change I would have never done it. I am happy with who I am, the friends I’ve got and the people I have met. I am not looking to change. I still love those d*mn Sloppy Joes.

Was the brunch as painful as it looked?

Jen: The brunch was definitely awkward. I can always count on my father to lighten a moment with some smart or sarcastic remark. I love Sadie and it was neat meeting her family. I wish I could have met her family under different circumstances. We made it through and in the end it was all good. We were able to laugh and come together.

Lor: You know what was interesting about the brunch, at least both sets of families got along and they saw the genuine quality in both girls. Each family meeting each girl they knew they were going to be happy with the outcome because they felt they are both good people.

Jen you seemed to be close to Sadie was it hard to be up against her in the finals?

Jen: That was probably the most difficult thing in the whole process being up against Sadie. This wasn’t a girl that I hated. This wasn’t a girl I didn’t want Lorenzo to end up with. This was a girl I had a huge respect for. I thought she was an amazing, beautiful person on the inside and the outside. I hope we can stay friends. I look forward to a friendship with her.

Jen how is your father handling the happy news?

Jen: He is actually very happy for me. I have been a daddy’s girl since I was little. He put away the shotgun. He trusts Lorenzo completely. He has always trusted my judgment. He raised me that way, so he is just really excited.

Are you going to watch the next season of the Bachelor together?

Lor: It is not during Monday Night Football, right?

Jen: I think we will definitely watch. I don’t know how we couldn’t knowing what we know now.

Lor: It looks like they picked a good guy. I will be rooting for him.

Why did you put the ring on Jen’s finger?


Lor: I didn’t have a necklace on me. Or a string, but it is a ring so you should put in on a finger. I decided to put it on Jen’s finger. But before I put it on her finger I wanted her to understand why I was putting it on her finger and what it meant. She has got it on her finger right now and that is what you do with a ring.

How did you feel about your break down which was shown over and over again?

Lor: I didn’t watch last night’s episode. I am just kidding. I don’t mind. I don’t think it is bad showing emotions. It is uncomfortable because everyone is seeing it. It is how I felt and it was a tough decision and if someone wants to crack jokes about it, which I am sure, they will let them. I don’t think anybody with a heart, living today has never, not cried. I wish they would have showed it five less times but I am OK with it.

Jen how have your friends and students reacted?

Jen: I have been in NY since Sunday so I haven’t talked to my kids yet. I am sure they are absolutely freaking out today, I can only imagine. My friends are really excited for me. I got a lot of text messages and phone calls last night. They are very supportive and they are dying to meet Lorenzo. They are really excited for me.

Lorenzo how have your friends reacted?

Lor: As far as going on the show with sort of mixed reviews, my guy friends thought it was the best thing that has ever happened to them. My girlfriends thought I was totally nuts. They couldn’t believe I was doing the Bachelor. They love the show. They were excited to get the inside scoop of what really happens. I can’t tell them that much because I am under contract so they are all very disappointed. As far as the outcome, as soon as the show started a bunch of my friends actually picked Jen right away. They thought she was totally my type and that I would go for her. I had a big party last night and everyone was really happy. They got to laugh at me when I was crying but supported me at the same time. Now I think they are going to wonder what they are going to do every Monday night.

How are the two of you going to maintain this long distance relationship until school is out?

Jen: I would say lots of frequent flyer miles right now. I love NYC. Lorenzo loves Miami. So in that sense it is pretty easy. We couldn’t live in two better cities. A lot of people make relationships work from NYC to Miami; it is common and an easy flight. We are going to be visiting each other, talking on the phone as much as we can, stay in contact. He is going to come down and see my kids. We are going to work on it the best we can as in any long distant relationship.

How long has it been since the final taping?

Lor: I believe we rapped 09/21 and came back on 09/22.

And you guys have only seen each other one other time since then?

Lor: Yes

Which hand are you wearing the ring on Jen?

Jen: The left hand

How has your age difference affected you?

Lor: I don’t think age matters. I think it is maturity level. Jen is extremely mature so I haven’t even noticed an age difference. I still can run a few miles a day and keep up with the majority of 24 year olds.

Jen: For me it really has been no big deal. I haven’t put any emphasis on it. None of my friends or family has put an emphasis on it. Even just me being on the show knowing he was older before I got picked, I think it is more about two people making a connection and we have a connection and we are really happy. In the big picture that is what is important.

Jen are your ready to get married?


Jen: I am definitely ready to get married. I am young but I am a teacher. I have a career. I am very happy. I am working on my master’s degree. In the normal progression in life what comes after that is a family. A lot of my friends are young and married and very happy. My parents were young when they got married. I see no problems. I am definitely ready.

Lorenzo do you have any advise for the new Bachelor?

Lor: I would give him the same advise my family and friends gave me. Whatever you do be yourself. If anything feels awkward don’t do it. That is all.

Lorenzo have you been getting recognized? How has that been for you?

Lor: I have been getting recognized and there are positives and negatives. I like people who come up to me and say thanks a lot. I really enjoyed watching you. I thought the girls were great. It was a fun season. On the flip side there are a lot of people who didn’t like the season or don’t like me and come up and they feel like they know me and they question me and get very aggressive. Those are the type of people I try to stay away from.

Jen are you bothered that women will be approaching Lorenzo?

Jen: I think to make a relationship work trust is the number one thing. It is very important. If I didn’t trust Lorenzo I wouldn’t have accepted the final rose. I completely trust him. I know women are going to approach him. They approached him before the show. They are going to approach him for a long time after. He is very handsome and charming. They saw a lot of good things on TV. In the end it is just down to me and Lorenzo I have total confidence in him that everything will be fine and if not I am sure it will get written about so I will find out that way.

Would you ever do another reality TV show?

Lor: I would never say no to anything until I know what it really is. I think we both would be stupid if we said I am not going to do anything else again in my entire life. If it is a fun opportunity and it makes sense I don’t see why either of us would turn it down. I wouldn’t want to do something like Flavor Flav where the Bachelor Lorenzo lets the camera’s follow him around for another six months.

Jen: I feel the same way if the right opportunity presented itself that we both would want to take it. Are we looking for a reality TV wedding at this point, probably not.
This is the teleconference with Jen and Lorenzo post finale. I don't see any indication of Lorenzo looking back and wondering "what if" at this point, and during his segment with Regis and Kelly he didn't seem like he was looking back and wondering what if when they were talking about Sadie. Going back to Sadie's radio interview and InTouch interview - she had moved on from it as well.

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WERE YOU SHOCKED WHEN LORENZO DIDN'T CHOOSE YOU?
Sadie: I had no idea what was going to happen. Of course, I was hoping and wanting it to be me. We had such great chemistry, so it was a big shock for me. I was just disappointed. I wasn't mad. I'm such a hopeless romantic and an optimist, and I wanted everything to work out the way I wanted it to.

YOUR REACTION WAS SO CALM AND KIND.
Sadie: When you really care about a person, you put their needs before yours. My girlfriends were like, "Do you want me to slap him? Do you want me to beat him up?" - but I did care about him, so I wanted him to be happy. I think we'll be friends. If I saw him, I'd give him a hug. It wouldn't be weird at all.

DO YOU THINK YOUR VIRGINITY WAS THE DECIDING FACTOR?
Sadie: I don't know. I never got a reason why. I hope that it wouldn't be. It could be, because it's a pretty big deal. I think it was a bit overplayed on the show. I'm pretty deep. I've got a lot going on in my life, and there's more to it than that. It's part of who I am - it's not all of who I am.

ARE YOU OVER LORENZO?
Sadie: Oh, yeah! I'm doing great. I was sad for a couple of days. But I was at peace with the situation before I went into it. I kept thinking, "Okay, if it doesn't work out, then it's just not meant to be and that means something better will come along and I'll just roll with that." I'm excited about dating.


ARE YOU GETTING A LOT OF E-MAILS FROM GUYS WHO RESPECT THAT YOU'RE SAVING YOURSELF?
Sadie: Totally. It's the cutest thing on earth. I'm getting random e-mails from guys I don't know. It's really, really sweet!


I have gone back and rewatched the show recently, and I still don't pick up on the "click" or the "it" between Sadie and Lorenzo I've seen many people post on. I am able to pick up on that being what the show is trying to focus on and trying to make everyone see, but I just don't see it. What I see are two people who admire each other, respect each other, really like each other, but the magical click and chemistry just aren't there. Lorenzo even at the end was questioning if they could have had chemistry and that was a huge sign to me that what was being portrayed as chemistry was probably being played up by the editors for the sake of "selling" Sadie as the likely choice all the way to the end. I just don't see the natural chemistry at all between them, and I see walls and guards up in many of their interactions together. I don't think either Sadie or Lorenzo were truly in love with each other in Rome, and I don't think that those feelings have mysteriously appeared in the last three months since the filming ended. There's just too much history there to go back and play the what if game.

I think Lorenzo may be showing Sadie around town if some of the professional opportunites that have opened to her since being on the show are based in NY. There's absolutely nothing wrong with that at all, it's good to have a friend in a new and big city to show you the ropes and help you out. I just don't think there's anything more involved than that - and if there is I would be surprised, because I just never saw "it" between Lorenzo and Sadie.

Sure, he was emotional when saying goodbye to her - and he explained that in one of his teleconferences. He said he knew he was going to be breaking her heart and sending her home in a limo crying to her family that he's met and was involved in the whole situation. That's hard for anyone, in any situation. Sadie was beautiful at the FRC, but I don't think Lorenzo was second-guessing himself at that point. I think he realized just how hard it was going to be to say goodbye to Sadie, and knowing that he did genuinely care for her. Lorenzo talked about loving many things about Jen and loving Jen, but we didn't hear that much with regards to Sadie at all. At the end, he didn't use the word love to describe Sadie at all. It was clear at the end of his date with Sadie (before his last date with Jen) that he knew it would be hard to let her go, but he also knew at that point that they weren't right for each other. That's why we saw him crying in the sweater he wore on their last date. It was at that moment that he realized he couldn't be or wasn't the right man for Sadie despite how much he liked or possibly felt himself loving her and that he wouldn't be picking her even if he doesn't consciously acknowledge that.

It's really hard to say what of anything that's been put "out there" is what. There's not enough direct information to have any inkling as to what's taking place between the three parties. It's all just enough to keep people talking, but not enough that people really have any clue what's going on. "Insiders" have Sadie dating someone she went to high school with, and still have Jen and Lorenzo together as of this week.
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This is the teleconference with Jen and Lorenzo post finale. I don't see any indication of Lorenzo looking back and wondering "what if" at this point, and during his segment with Regis and Kelly he didn't seem like he was looking back and wondering what if when they were talking about Sadie. Going back to Sadie's radio interview and InTouch interview - she had moved on from it as well.

The Bachelor: Rome
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Eliminated November 27

WERE YOU SHOCKED WHEN LORENZO DIDN'T CHOOSE YOU?
Sadie: I had no idea what was going to happen. Of course, I was hoping and wanting it to be me. We had such great chemistry, so it was a big shock for me. I was just disappointed. I wasn't mad. I'm such a hopeless romantic and an optimist, and I wanted everything to work out the way I wanted it to.

YOUR REACTION WAS SO CALM AND KIND.
Sadie: When you really care about a person, you put their needs before yours. My girlfriends were like, "Do you want me to slap him? Do you want me to beat him up?" - but I did care about him, so I wanted him to be happy. I think we'll be friends. If I saw him, I'd give him a hug. It wouldn't be weird at all.

DO YOU THINK YOUR VIRGINITY WAS THE DECIDING FACTOR?
Sadie: I don't know. I never got a reason why. I hope that it wouldn't be. It could be, because it's a pretty big deal. I think it was a bit overplayed on the show. I'm pretty deep. I've got a lot going on in my life, and there's more to it than that. It's part of who I am - it's not all of who I am.

ARE YOU OVER LORENZO?
Sadie: Oh, yeah! I'm doing great. I was sad for a couple of days. But I was at peace with the situation before I went into it. I kept thinking, "Okay, if it doesn't work out, then it's just not meant to be and that means something better will come along and I'll just roll with that." I'm excited about dating.


ARE YOU GETTING A LOT OF E-MAILS FROM GUYS WHO RESPECT THAT YOU'RE SAVING YOURSELF?
Sadie: Totally. It's the cutest thing on earth. I'm getting random e-mails from guys I don't know. It's really, really sweet!


I have gone back and rewatched the show recently, and I still don't pick up on the "click" or the "it" between Sadie and Lorenzo I've seen many people post on. I am able to pick up on that being what the show is trying to focus on and trying to make everyone see, but I just don't see it. What I see are two people who admire each other, respect each other, really like each other, but the magical click and chemistry just aren't there. Lorenzo even at the end was questioning if they could have had chemistry and that was a huge sign to me that what was being portrayed as chemistry was probably being played up by the editors for the sake of "selling" Sadie as the likely choice all the way to the end. I just don't see the natural chemistry at all between them, and I see walls and guards up in many of their interactions together. I don't think either Sadie or Lorenzo were truly in love with each other in Rome, and I don't think that those feelings have mysteriously appeared in the last three months since the filming ended. There's just too much history there to go back and play the what if game.

I think Lorenzo may be showing Sadie around town if some of the professional opportunites that have opened to her since being on the show are based in NY. There's absolutely nothing wrong with that at all, it's good to have a friend in a new and big city to show you the ropes and help you out. I just don't think there's anything more involved than that - and if there is I would be surprised, because I just never saw "it" between Lorenzo and Sadie.

Sure, he was emotional when saying goodbye to her - and he explained that in one of his teleconferences. He said he knew he was going to be breaking her heart and sending her home in a limo crying to her family that he's met and was involved in the whole situation. That's hard for anyone, in any situation. Sadie was beautiful at the FRC, but I don't think Lorenzo was second-guessing himself at that point. I think he realized just how hard it was going to be to say goodbye to Sadie, and knowing that he did genuinely care for her. Lorenzo talked about loving many things about Jen and loving Jen, but we didn't hear that much with regards to Sadie at all. At the end, he didn't use the word love to describe Sadie at all. It was clear at the end of his date with Sadie (before his last date with Jen) that he knew it would be hard to let her go, but he also knew at that point that they weren't right for each other. That's why we saw him crying in the sweater he wore on their last date. It was at that moment that he realized he couldn't be or wasn't the right man for Sadie despite how much he liked or possibly felt himself loving her and that he wouldn't be picking her even if he doesn't consciously acknowledge that.

It's really hard to say what of anything that's been put "out there" is what. There's not enough direct information to have any inkling as to what's taking place between the three parties. It's all just enough to keep people talking, but not enough that people really have any clue what's going on. "Insiders" have Sadie dating someone she went to high school with, and still have Jen and Lorenzo together as of this week.
Bright, they have a contract to fulfill of course they will say all is well, even Bob and Aaron stated that all was well.........From all I heard regarding Sadie, I have not heard that she was involved with an old high school b/f.......I know that she has stayed in contact with her old b/f but from what I understand they are just friends.....

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