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buglover · 11-28-2006, 02:32 PM

Let's not call anyone a slut. Personally I jumped into bed on the 3rd date. I had to find out if it was worth continuing on with the relationship. I liked my b/f alot, I just need to know if we were sexually compatible. We were and have been together almost 7 years.

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girlsmom · 11-28-2006, 02:34 PM

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Originally Posted by What Am I Think

J: "Yes but we are just trying to figure things out and seeing how things go. Being long distance we know we have challenges ahead of us but we are happy and trying our best.
Lorenzo is not talking. He says he is taking a few moments of quiet. He says he knew 2 hours ahead but he felt “a little stronger and closer to Jen” I’m glad I made my decision to be w/ Jen but the feelings were strong for both girls"

Wow that statement is very telling..Jen having to ask LOR if he is having any second thoughts? Whew...it sure sounds like it to me...he is kicking his arse all the way ....why oh why couldn't I hold out....?

It wasn't my imagination that he looked heartbroken about letting Sadie go. He was just barely hanging on and S. made it SO easy for him. I didn't tape, but I'd love to see the tape. He was desperate, like he was forcing the words out. Not just not wanting to hurt her, not wanting her to go!!

Jennie · 11-28-2006, 02:34 PM

Thanks shobean for the recap!

I haven't seen Regis and Kelly but this relationship doesn't seem to be going anywhere.

Do you think the Navy MD can bring some true romance back to the series?

aname · 11-28-2006, 02:37 PM

Personally, I think he is probably sick of the whole thing - cameras, interviews, questions, etc. etc. If they only saw each other once during the time apart - that doesn't bode well for their future at all. That factor alone has spelled doom for many of the previous Bachelor relationships. The interview sure didn't sound like everything was hunky dory. When he said he didn't decide until two hours before, that gave me pause. It is obvious then that he didn't have a strong love connection with Jenn, he just preferred her to Sadie. Hmmm . . not good.

misskitty · 11-28-2006, 02:43 PM

Gosh, that interview does not instill great confidence that this relationship will work out, IMO. Lorenzo shouldn't be quiet. He should be shouting from the rafters (but not jumping on the couch). I think Jen is doing a good job considering he keeps saying he made up his mind 2 hours before.

That's too close to call. I think Lorenzo is still unsure and will be respectful enough to see what happens in the next few months. But I wouldn't really bet on a wedding. Not with those two anyway.

Oh, and he says he wants to be friends with Sadie. I hope she never speaks to him after the way he so rude at the very end.

What Am I Think · 11-28-2006, 02:44 PM

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Originally Posted by girlsmom

It wasn't my imagination that he looked heartbroken about letting Sadie go. He was just barely hanging on and S. made it SO easy for him. I didn't tape, but I'd love to see the tape. He was desperate, like he was forcing the words out. Not just not wanting to hurt her, not wanting her to go!!

I agree, I also do not think anyone was calling Jen a slut. Ever...she seems like a very sweet and innocent girl as well, a bit immature. I think he watched the final yesterday and went wow! What did I do? I know the sleuthers stated that they saw a connection with Jen from the start and the Sadie supporters stated likewise. Well according to the interviews we were both correct. He did not make up his mind until the final two hours

So...how should Jen feel? I would feel terrible. I skimmed by by the skin of my teeth. Thats how I would feel. You know LOR states he needs time to think and get to know the person, what for another 8 years buddy. If I were Jen I wouln't let him get the young years of my life and let him decide if I was worthy. I think he is slime!!! Especially by how he kept Sadie around after she told him that he knew best....what a class act.

And another thing, I didn't hear Jen stating yeah I have my bags packed for New York come May!..she stated we will see! What changed her tune?

girlsmom · 11-28-2006, 02:49 PM

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I agree, I also do not think anyone was calling Jen a slut. Ever...she seems like a very sweet and innocent girl as well, a bit immature. I think he watched the final yesterday and went wow! What did I do? I know the sleuthers stated that they saw a connection with Jen from the start and the Sadie supporters stated likewise. Well according to the interviews we were both correct. He did not make up his mind until the final two hours

So...how should Jen feel? I would feel terrible. I skimmed by by the skin of my teeth. Thats how I would feel. You know LOR states he needs time to think and get to know the person, what for another 8 years buddy. If I were Jen I wouln't let him get the young years of my life and let him decide if I was worthy. I think he is slime!!! Especially by how he kept Sadie around after she told him that he knew best....what a class act.

To clarify: I think Jen was another victim. She thought her really loved her, she thought she loved him and quite probably felt that it made sense to be intimate. She'd be unusual if she hadn't.
Honestly: What is this garbage about not being together last night???? The couple can ALWAYS be together the evening before. PERIOD. Nothing's happening here, PLo has moved on. But, hey, how wonder that he had lots of FUN! lol at his willingness to do other reality t.v

What Am I Think · 11-28-2006, 02:51 PM

But, hey, how wonder that he had lots of FUN! lol at his willingness to do other reality t.v

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Yeah,,,,he is slime! I completely changed my tune about him.. He is no gentleman, the way he is now treating Jen..I am mad about that...She deserves better.....Hey Jen find someone who knows you are the one not just two hours before...eeek...

Let him suck eight years out of someone else's life and future...such a loser...ughhhhh. grow up man...be a man...let mommy keep her ring and her little get togethers. What kind of man lets his Mommy plan a party with both parent. I think a 34 year old man would say..uh you know what mom, that is not a good idea and I will not be part of that....Sadie you actually won..you go girl!!!!God has someone worthy of you and you for him and likewise for you to Jen

Wryle · 11-28-2006, 02:53 PM

I want to apologize for overreacting to the "sexually sated" remark. There has been a great deal of Jen-bashing going on since the finale and I picked the wrong time and statement to react.

I am not accusing anyone specifically of Jen-bashing, but please don't deny that it is happening. I think there are better ways to express dissapointment than to trash the competition.

What Am I Think · 11-28-2006, 02:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Wryle

I want to apologize for overreacting to the "sexually sated" remark. There has been a great deal of Jen-bashing going on since the finale and I picked the wrong time and statement to react.

I am not accusing anyone specifically of Jen-bashing, but please don't deny that it is happening. I think there are better ways to express dissapointment than to trash the competition.

I agree there has been Jen bashing, but you have to admit,,,last night she was not a shining example of maturity, grace ect...she ended the note on giggle, giggle ect....Oh my gosh...ect...so I think she will see LOR is not quite a gem that he thinks he is...and she will find someone worthy of her affections and love.

11-28-2006, 02:32 PM	#2171
buglover Searching for inner peace Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: CA Age: 36 Posts: 11,855	Let's not call anyone a slut. Personally I jumped into bed on the 3rd date. I had to find out if it was worth continuing on with the relationship. I liked my b/f alot, I just need to know if we were sexually compatible. We were and have been together almost 7 years. __________________ In my own little world.

11-28-2006, 02:43 PM	#2175
misskitty Got Cattitude Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: In the Kat House in Kanada Posts: 7,695	Gosh, that interview does not instill great confidence that this relationship will work out, IMO. Lorenzo shouldn't be quiet. He should be shouting from the rafters (but not jumping on the couch). I think Jen is doing a good job considering he keeps saying he made up his mind 2 hours before. That's too close to call. I think Lorenzo is still unsure and will be respectful enough to see what happens in the next few months. But I wouldn't really bet on a wedding. Not with those two anyway. Oh, and he says he wants to be friends with Sadie. I hope she never speaks to him after the way he so rude at the very end. __________________ Live simply ~ Love generously~ Care deeply~ Speak kindly

11-28-2006, 02:51 PM	#2178
What Am I Think FORT Fan Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 183	But, hey, how wonder that he had lots of FUN! lol at his willingness to do other reality t.v [/quote] Yeah,,,,he is slime! I completely changed my tune about him.. He is no gentleman, the way he is now treating Jen..I am mad about that...She deserves better.....Hey Jen find someone who knows you are the one not just two hours before...eeek... Let him suck eight years out of someone else's life and future...such a loser...ughhhhh. grow up man...be a man...let mommy keep her ring and her little get togethers. What kind of man lets his Mommy plan a party with both parent. I think a 34 year old man would say..uh you know what mom, that is not a good idea and I will not be part of that....Sadie you actually won..you go girl!!!!God has someone worthy of you and you for him and likewise for you to Jen Last edited by What Am I Think; 11-28-2006 at 02:55 PM.

11-28-2006, 02:53 PM	#2179
Wryle Why I rarely post... Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Way Down South in Dixie Age: 38 Posts: 509	I want to apologize for overreacting to the "sexually sated" remark. There has been a great deal of Jen-bashing going on since the finale and I picked the wrong time and statement to react. I am not accusing anyone specifically of Jen-bashing, but please don't deny that it is happening. I think there are better ways to express dissapointment than to trash the competition. __________________ "I reject your reality and substitute my own!" Adam Savage, Mythbusters

11-28-2006, 02:34 PM	#2173
Jennie Fort Fan Join Date: Feb 2004 Posts: 857	Thanks shobean for the recap! I haven't seen Regis and Kelly but this relationship doesn't seem to be going anywhere. Do you think the Navy MD can bring some true romance back to the series?

11-28-2006, 02:37 PM	#2174
aname FORT Fogey Join Date: Aug 2003 Posts: 2,320	Personally, I think he is probably sick of the whole thing - cameras, interviews, questions, etc. etc. If they only saw each other once during the time apart - that doesn't bode well for their future at all. That factor alone has spelled doom for many of the previous Bachelor relationships. The interview sure didn't sound like everything was hunky dory. When he said he didn't decide until two hours before, that gave me pause. It is obvious then that he didn't have a strong love connection with Jenn, he just preferred her to Sadie. Hmmm . . not good.