3/12 Bachelor 16: The Finale and ATFR **West Coast Spoilers**

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Originally Posted by jaymes4u

for all you women who want to get (trap) a guy, watch and learn from courtney...

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Speaking for men who have nothing in common with this twit, please don't think we are all sucked in this easily. Many of us have standards and morals. :)

Lindzi, sweetheart, this is not the moment girls dream of their whole lives...

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Originally Posted by waywyrd

Leaving a trail of men in your wake is not exactly a shining example of womanhood, IMO. Playing games is for children.

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agreed...

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Originally Posted by Eastcoastmom

Lindzi's first. :(

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I am actually very happy for Lindzi. She deserves so much better.

Ben did not handle this well at all. "I have fallen in love with you" Goodness, she thought that he chose her. that was cruel.

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Originally Posted by jaymes4u

women like courtney are always going to say they were the hurt one, it puts them in the best light with men who want to save them...the tabloids have well documented her trail of men over the last 3 months...no reason to doubt the stories.

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Fine but if you are saying she played people doesn't mean that her intention to manipulate ben was what makes her fall for her / stay with her. if it was just the manipulation then you would expect the relationship and feelings to end as it did with those men. Put another way, tricks dont work forever but "lust for life" or "sauciness" can last for a while and can attract despite conniving or ill conceived plans.

I wish she would just say "Really??? Really Ben???"

Ben says he found something to last a lifetime with "someone else". *snort*

Don't cry, girl. He isn't worth it. You dodged a bullet.

This is the first time I've ever been glad the lead didn't pick my favorite.

Funny, he asks Lindzi if he can walk her out but that was the part he snapped at Ashley about.

I can't believe Lindzi's comforting him. Ugh, walk away girl!! And then she says call me if it doesn't work out. She totally knew what'd happen...