Ben Flajnik *No spoilers*

[norealityhere]

My sister, who doesn't watch the show as much as the rest of us, loves his hair!! Go figure!!

[JavaJo]

I liked his hair better before he cut it..in the earlier episodes of Ashley's season. Now it's in that awkward between stage.

[Fanny Mare]

My sister, who doesn't watch the show as much as the rest of us, loves his hair!! Go figure!!

I dont mind it.Side by side he resembles Josh Groban, who I adore

[Annastasia B]

I would get the ears pinned back before I would wear that ridiculous haircut. I like Josh Grobin's hair. I don't think Ben's looks like that.

[Fanny Mare]

Well I do.I saw him in concert not long ago, and his hair was a mess! even hubby mentioned it.Perhaps Ben does not want his ears pinned, I hear its very painful. My dd loves Ben as he is. Each to their own I guess

[KatesMom]

I don't mind his hair - and I think it fits his personality and lifestyle. I actually don't have a problem with Ben but I have just not been able to bring myself to watch this season.

[veg_out]

Big ears or messy hair, it doesn't matter to me. I'm so glad that not many people find him attractive--more for me

I actually adore his hair and his style. He's built like a soccer player, interacts brilliantly with kids (I even remember the orphanage date), and exudes a calmness even though he's a total goofball. Has anyone seen his Twitter for Scotch, his dog? It's hilarious.

The drama and antics really are over the top to compensate for his no-drama-rama attitude. So, yeah, I really do like Ben. There's a vulnerability in his face.

[Fanny Mare]

WTG veg_out well said

[peacemar33]

I agree veg_out as well. Ben is Ben. I know lots wouldn't like the way JP keeps his hair either. As long as the women that they are interested in like it that is the most important thing.

[Critical]

The difference between Ben's hair and JP's hair is that JP actually looks like he takes time to groom himself. Ben looks (to quote fluff) like he's been dragged through a hedge. To each his or her own, but that hairstyle is just not flattering. Plus, he looks like he's never met a brush he likes.

Maybe my problem with him goes to his uncanny resemblance to Rafael Nadal, who I also find unattractive. I can't explain it - he just does nothing for me. Plus, I think he's dull as dirt. I also found Ames incredibly creepy, so there you go.

With a few exceptions, I haven't been bowled over by any of the bachelors. The fact that they rarely choose a girl who is capable of a mature relationship with anyone other than a Playboy photographer or a casting couch probably has something to do with it. The guys all talk about how they're there to meet a girl they can bring home to mom and marry..... until the slutty girl with the big boobs hits the hot tub in dental floss and a cocktail napkin and then suddenly it's all over. I don't expect Ben to be any different.