Pandora, this show became a "farce" years ago. I only watch it now for a good laugh. Most of the people who appear on this show are not in it to find a relationship. Their in in for the PR they get. Those that are in to find a lasting relationship are the ones who come across as pathetic. ( Not all, but most). I still can't tell what catagory Ben is in because his actions say one thing and what comes out of his mouth is completely different. I thought he was kinda funny in the beginning but after the last two episodes I get the feeling he's very controlling and wants things his way and his way only. Plus the skinny dipping..... I agree with the poster who said if Ben was the least bit interested in any of the other girl's besides Courtney, he never would of done the deed with her. I think it;s clear that he chooses Courtney in the end. 1: because he, well, did what he did with Courtney and 2: he's not in this for a wife and Courtney is the perfect choice for that.