I like Ben. Just as much this season as last season. I don't consider him overly confident or blase. He strikes me as being very much in touch with who he is - good and bad. He speaks and acts accordingly.
He has a purety about him that way.
I'm not a Courtney fan, but if he chooses her in the end, I'd be ok with it. He knows what works for him and what doesn't. It may not be to viewers' tastes, but as long as he is honest about things, I'm completely ok with all of it.
I think Ben is the most honest and together bachelor they've ever had.