I don't know her story.Sure everyone is different, but I still stand by my feelings. As an adopted person myself, I am if anything, proud to be adopted. That proves, if nothing else, that you ARE wanted, and you ARE loved. Two people in the world searched to have a child and it turned out to be you. You aren't a product of an unwanted pregnancy, but a product of two loving people who CHOSE you. To think otherwise is just not healthy. If you find the issue to be such a problem that it is getting in the way of your relationships, which it clearly is with AshLee, she needs therapy and she needs to move on, or she will be a lonely her whole life. That is sad for her. She may like the whole *I am a victim* persona though - who knows.