It's true that the whole set-up is crazy because basically it's a way for a single man or woman to date a bunch of folks at once without them expecting him or her to be faithful. In the meantime, it's not reciprocal or they get kicked off the show.
With that being said, in this crazy bach world, it is not expected that the bach will be sleeping with anyone until the Fantasy suites which is what made it so sickening because I'm about 95% sure that is exactly what they did. And it made Courtney look like sleaze because she wasn't just skinny-dipping with her boyfriend but she did it in front of all the cameramen and knowing good and well it was going to be shown on TV and full-fledged on the internet.
I realize that in this PC day and age that morals has become a dirty word but I'm going to use it anyway because I am not PC.
Now if you want to do that kind of stuff and it doesn't bother you because you have no morals, that's fine. Just don't be shocked when folks with morals find it tacky. If she were my daughter I would be thinking where have I gone wrong.
And while it would not have bothered me as much that my son bared his all, (yes, I am using a double-standard, again non-PC) if Ben had been my son I would have been extremely disappointed in him for doing that which in essence was showing disrespect for all the other women still there. I expect my son to treat women like ladies and if I heard he did not, I would raise holy cain with him.
As Emily implied in the WTA, once Ben had sex with Courtney, it was all over but the final rose. He was no longer thinking with his heart or with his head between his ears.