This is such an interesting thread.
It's so true, all of the above statements, and sad. I've thought quite a bit about all of this today, calling to mind the TV shows that are currently on the air and the discrepancy between the women and the men.
In KING OF THE HILL; YES, DEAR; THE SIMPSON'S; and the other litany of Sitcoms out there, the woman is always thin and well kept up. The men are "robust, rotund, fat, and or, just lazy asses", yet that Little Gal just loves her lovable lout.
The only show that I can even think about that had a heavy-set lead was ROSEANNE, and naturally, she had to have a heavy-set husband. No offense to John Goodman, but, couldn't they have cast a slim to normal sized man in the role, and shown that men are as accepting as women?
Alas, no. No matter how many of us reality TV folks would like to see an Average Jane show, I can't imagine it happening, unless part of the premise was that she got a make-over half way through the show.
Yup, we're locked into stereotypes with a dead-bolt lock.
Brave Little Toaster
Wouldn't having their hearts broken by the Bachelor be enough? I don't think the women could handle anymore drama.
When you make sport of homely men, it's hilarious. When you make sport of homely women, it's borderline abusive.
That distinction is why Average Jane will likely never see the light of day.
Do the Kirby!
In keeping with lambikins idea and concerning "Roseanne":
Keep in mind that Dan left Roseanne near the end of the series. While this may show a perceived "need" for a more attractive mate, I prefer to think of it as him having a mid-life crisis that he handled as badly as humanly possible.
After all, if your wife of many years and the mother of your 3 children won the lottery and was waiting, desperately wanting and hoping to take you back with open arms... wouldn't you go back to her? Oh well, maybe I just miss that sitcom...
He died of a heart attack, he didn't leave her.
Originally Posted by Healblade
Oh man, I hate that I know this.
Originally Posted by Play Doh Rocks
Dan took off at some point in the last season to be with his sick mom in, I believe, California. While he was away on this extended trip, he started an affair with his mother's nurse.
Now, although it came out at the end of the series that it was a Dallas-esque dream and that Dan had actually died after his heart attack during Darlene's wedding, the show did write that dream storyline where he temporarily left Roseanne and was carrying on with the nurse chick.
Any semblance of "cool" I ever had has just gone out the window.
I think it would be possible to find an open-minded decent looking guy to do a show with a bunch of average Jane's. I think they'd have more luck if they didn't throw in the "twist" of having a bunch of supermodels show up mid-way through, though.
The problem, I believe, would be that no one would turn in to watch it. Viewers don't seem to mind the "ugly" or "dorky" guys - the female viewers are more open minded, and the male viewers are simply laughing at the guys and drooling over the girl. I'm not sure it would be watched much if it were the other way around.
It's all a Mystery to Me
Hahaha! You go down in history as someone who knows what happened to Dan (actually, I'm glad you did know because I was reading this thread thinking "what did happen to Dan?" I watched a lot of the series, but not the last season apparently.
Originally Posted by AmandaG
Yep, you could probably find one guy that would agree to be set up with some Average Janes....but the keyword would be "Average" -- I don't think most guys are as tolerant about the really below average looking as women are (as someone said in an earlier post...women are trained from childhood to see the value in the beasts, frogs, etc...they may just turn into princes!).
Originally Posted by mbcrowder
I don't know if there is a woman alive who would still remain on the show if they brought in a bunch of models/beauty queens though. I know I sure wouldn't. But then again, there is no way anyone would get a picture of me in a swimsuit if I had a few pounds on me. I wouldn't be filmed without makeup either. Maybe women are more vain than men? I know I am pretty vain.
I don't know if women are more vain, but I certainly know women are practically conditioned to be more obessive about their looks. That's why women's magazines tend to spend 80% of their content to urging women to buy better hair, clothes and boobs, and the other 20% telling them not to have eating disorders.
Originally Posted by KaiCee
Even if some average looking women end up being tricked into being contestants of Average Jane, I'm sure half of them would simply quit, rather than end up as TV's representation of "plain women."
Though in "real life" as opposed to tv life, I have noticed really pretty girls (friends of mine) hooking up with so-so looking guys. The guys are usually #1 funny #2 considerate #3 financially stable. I think to girls "he has a nice personality" goes a lot farther than it does with guys. And perhaps, we don't face the ridicule of our friends for dating an ordinary guy. Now... Average Joe doesn't look for ordinary guys. It is having more fun in some cases with a sort of an intentional freak-fest. Though, with some personality-related exceptions, many of those guys seem just a Queer Eye makeover or Atkins Diet away from being catches.
Originally Posted by mariagoner
I am curious about the "now available" website. Anyone on FORT got a date with an Average Joe?
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