Melena couldn't in her right conscience choose Adam because their feelings for each other were not same. She couldn't reciprocate the same kind of feelings for him and that would have been unfair to pick him. The drink menu was great, but her reaction was similar to how she felt about John and his rock. I think the dates with him blew her out of the water. She couldn't reciprocate half of the things Adam did for her (his creativeness, his money, style). She was still cringing at his touch too. She and Jason are on the same page and into each other for the same reasons. Average Jane & Joe (Jason) should have taken the bus. Adam should have been the one on the plane ... she set him free to fly away.