Julianne was in Rock of Ages that was panned last year. This year she is in Safe Haven, written by Nicholas Sparks. According to IMDb she has another completed movie, Paradise, and a movie in post production, Skum Rocks! Now, that one sounds ???
She has been very busy developing a film career since she and Ryan got together. Ryan has always been very busy with his radio show, Idol (6 months a year) and TV production projects. I really can believe that they came to the point of being ships that passed in the night and lost their connection.
I have never thought Ryan gay.