He was or maybe still is back in jail again.Originally Posted by graycat11;2509474;
He was or maybe still is back in jail again.Originally Posted by graycat11;2509474;
Last I heard, he just recently returned to the slam.Originally Posted by razorbacker;2509531;
I read that he assaulted his live-in girlfriend/wife.
This looks like a job for our super sleuth, bbnbama, to get the details. I haven't seen her posts in a while, however.
I can't think when I have to think. ~~moi~~
Thank god Kellie P. has had her grandfather as a good, stable influence in her life.
I read an article online today about her mother an I can't find it now.
There was a picture of her and she talked about the abuse she suffered, how she left, when she came back and gained custody again then gave Kellie up to the grandparents. I'm still trying to find it.
I found the article.
newsobserver.com | 'Idol' singer's mom tells of shame, amends
'Idol' singer's mom tells of shame, amends
Mandy Locke, Staff Writer
RALEIGH - Choking back tears on the stage at Walnut Creek Amphitheater on Friday night, former "American Idol" sweetheart Kellie Pickler sang a song of questions to the mother who abandoned her.
In a church sanctuary not five miles away, Pickler's mother, Cynthia Malone, prayed once more for the strength to fully forgive herself for deserting Pickler as a toddler.
What was once a mother's private shame has become national intrigue as Pickler, 21, a budding country music vocalist, penned a song about a little girl's longing for a vanished mother. "I Wonder" is climbing the Billboard Hot Country Songs list, hitting No. 15 this month.
Malone, who lives in the Triangle, said it was hard to hear the first words her daughter had spoken to her in a decade uttered in a song on the radio. The lyrics are more mournful than angry, more pitiful than judging, but Pickler poses painful questions:
"Did you think I didn't need you here/ To hold my hand/ To dry my tears/ Did you even miss me through the years at all?"
The song -- and Pickler's discussions about her tough childhood -- unleashed a range of emotions for Malone. Embarrassment faded to anger, which turned to hurt. Now, Malone is using the conversation that Pickler started in a song to speak to strangers about her struggles.
Malone, 38, spoke last week about leaving her daughter and her efforts to escape abusive relationships. She said she is finally free and healthy and wants to help other victims of domestic violence. She has joined with Interact, Wake County's domestic violence support center, to assist victims and hopes her unwelcome fame as Pickler's estranged mom will make them listen.
'To help one girl'
"I can't change anybody's mind or their perception of me," said Malone, widening dark eyes that match her daughter's. "But, if I had a dream, it would be to help one girl. To let her know that you don't have to do it by yourself."
Pickler declined through her publicist, Wes Vause, to comment for this story. Vause said Pickler's song captures her thoughts best.
Pickler sings in part: "Forgiveness is such a simple word/ But it's so hard to do when you've been hurt."
Pickler's father, Clyde "Bo" Pickler Jr., 42, whom Kellie has described as an alcoholic often jailed during her childhood, is behind bars again in Stanly County. He was convicted last week of stealing cars and pawning them for scrap metal, a Stanly County Sheriff's Office official said. Clyde Pickler is also on probation for assaulting his current wife with a steak knife. His attorney did not return calls.
Malone was 16 and a country girl living in Stanly County when she fell for Clyde Pickler. He pulled up to her window at a local McDonald's drive-thru. She was smitten, and quickly they became a pair.
"He told me everything I wanted to hear," Malone said. "He told me he loved me, that I was pretty, that he wanted to be there and protect me from my dad. I wholeheartedly believed him."
Soon, Malone got pregnant with Kellie. She said she resisted family pressure to have an abortion and married Clyde Pickler instead. That was when the trouble started.
The beatings came fast and furious, Malone said. She tried to shield her bulging belly and had to take medicine to temper premature contractions.
"I knew God had to have a purpose for [Kellie] because there was too many times I would have miscarried because of all the hitting and beating on my stomach," Malone said.
Eight months pregnant, Malone went to a baby shower with a black eye and busted lip. She told family members she had run into a wall. No one questioned her, Malone said.
Kellie's birth in 1986 seemed to unleash even more violence in their home. Malone said she called police so many times that officers knew her by name. Once, she said, her husband threw her through a glass shower door and choked her before vanishing. For three days, Malone said, she wrapped Kellie in blankets and hid her behind their bed, in case her husband returned in a rage.
Court and police records from these years are scattered and incomplete. Clyde Pickler was convicted of assault by pointing a gun in 1986; the victim was a family member of Malone's. Malone described the abuse as far back as 1988 in custody and divorce records.
Malone said she has never known her former husband to harm Kellie.
"He wouldn't," she said. "She's blood. His princess."
A fearful mother flees
By the summer of 1988, Malone had had enough. She had shut down and could think of little more than survival.
"When you're in that place, you have to make a decision: her life or yours," Malone said during an emotional five-hour interview. "I'd given her life, but I didn't want to lose mine."
The morning after an immobilizing beating, Malone said, she dropped 2-year-old Kellie off at her in-laws', stuffed a few items in her car and headed to Jacksonville to hide with family. She grabbed a few baby pictures, Kellie's baby blanket and the outfit she brought her home from the hospital in.
Malone told no one she was leaving.
A year later, Malone showed up at a custody hearing to try to preserve some custody rights to Kellie. Clyde Pickler's parents, Clyde Sr. and the late Faye Pickler, asked a judge for full guardianship. Malone said she disappeared again after her husband threatened her life if she reappeared.
Malone stayed gone for many years. She would drive by her former in-laws', though, and park near the road to catch a glimpse of Kellie playing in the yard. She looked happy, Malone recalled.
In 1995, Malone got herself together enough to reunite with her daughter. A judge granted her custody. Kellie was in the fourth grade.
Malone said it was good for about a day; the two baked cookies and played checkers.
Soon, their relationship unraveled. Malone said Kellie desperately longed for her grandparents. She threw fits and threatened to kill herself, Malone said. Kellie's grandparents alleged in court records that Malone abused Kellie; a judge found her not guilty of child abuse.
Eventually Malone surrendered, heartbroken. She turned Kellie back over to the Picklers and took off again.
"I don't know what was hardest," Malone said -- "watching her from afar or having her wrapped up beside me."
Apart for a decade
It has been 10 years since the two have met. Malone said she lived for the glimpses of her daughter on "American Idol" in 2006. She recorded each episode and watched it again and again. She raves about Kellie's voice.
In the years since they have parted, Malone has struggled. She said she survived a series of violent relationships and barely escaped with her life in 2002. An estranged husband lay in wait for her, Malone said, and attacked her. She suffered major brain damage and had to learn to walk and talk again. She has had eight surgeries to rebuild a shattered face and replace her teeth.
She fled to Colorado after that attack and changed her last name to Malone through a protection program for victims of domestic violence. She has kept a low profile since returning to North Carolina a few years ago. She lives in the Triangle and works in financial services but declined to be specific about her whereabouts. Malone is still wary one of her abusers will find her.
Malone doesn't want to address her daughter through the media and won't discuss their current relationship. Pickler's publicist said he doesn't think Malone and Pickler are in contact.
Pickler landed a recording deal with BNA Records and 19 Recordings and left Stanly County to launch her career. She fills her mom in on her adventure in the last verse of "I Wonder."
"And just in case you're wondering about me/ From now on I won't be in Carolina/ Your little girl is off/ Your little girl is off/ Your little girl is off to Tennessee."
I read this about Kellie in the local Nashville paper.
Tennessean.com Blogs » Blog Archive » Intern Adam Takes on Kellie Pickler
Heres the link to the on air broadcast at the radio station.Shenanigans shenanigans!! If you missed Intern Adam’s morning radio show on 107.5 The River this morning, then you missed out! Apparently Adam was rolling through a McDonalds Drive-Thru for a late snack at around 1a.m. this morning when he pulled up behind a black Mercedes with none other than Kellie Pickler behind the wheel and a gentlemen who resembled Jordin Tootoo in the passenger seat.
After screaming her order for a double cheeseburger into the speaker so loud that even Adam could hear it in the car behind her, Kellie threw her car into park, turned up the volume on Fergie’s “Glamorous” and started bouncing up and down in the seat while spelling out the letters of the song.
Finally, once her order was ready to go, she pealed out of the McDonalds and took off into the night. When Adam reached the window, the fast food attendant said something along the lines of, “Man, did you see her? She was hammered!”
Surely Kellie is smart enough not to follow in the wobbly footsteps of Lindsay Lohan right? Drunk driving is no joking manner.
Of course, Adam shared his story with his faithful listeners this morning on the radio however he may be losing one listener for good. It seems that Ms. Pickler caught wind of Adam’s story and called into the station madder than hell! How dare he accuse her of drunk driving?!?!?
107.5 The River
Way to go kick butt Kellie!Country star, Kellie Pickler was clearly outraged by the accusations made in Tuesday Morning’s Sleaze Report by Intern Adam.
In his Sleaze report, Intern Adam accused her of driving through a fast food drive-thru window, apparently after she had been out “partying” late Monday night.
Listen to a very emotional Kellie Pickler tell her side of the story as she clears the air to these accusations.
So glad that Kellie had her grandparents to take care of her! So sad about the mom's abuse, and hope that Kellie can forgive her! Kellie's newest single, "Things That Never Cross A Man's Mind" comes out in September! It is an awesome song, very catchy and fun! I know the video will be amazing! Kellie is so adorable, so cute, talented, and has a great personality! Praying for Kellie and her mom!
I believe that kellie is going to be on celebrity "are you smarter than a 5th grader" taping today...GOOD LUCK KELLIE!
Clay Aiken "when everyones working on it change isnt impossible, its inevetible"
That story about her mom is unreal. You almost don't know who to feel more sorry for. That song makes me cry every time I hear it, it's so heartbreaking.