I think this guy gets a lot of undeserved criticism. I thought the "mirror" comment was very strange. But I would be lying if I said that he meant it as an insult or a that he meant it as a joke. He wasn't laughing so it didn't seem like a joke. He seemed sort of sad when he said it. He also was not spirited or angry. Personally, I think he meant it in reference to him choosing that song over "Let's Get It On." That's the only thing that makes sense. But because the intent was not clear, I am not going to paint this guy into the villain over it.
I know I have said this before but I would like someone who is a fan of Adam Lambert, Siobhan Magnus, or James Durbin to tell me how they can justify not liking Jacob because "he is too dramatic" when he sings while liking any of those 3.