Phil definitely said something that gave Vanessa the opportunity to jump in with her passive-aggressive cheating accusation, and of course Rachel responded and they were off. What I hate, really really hate, is when people throw out comments like that and then retreat with a fake smile and a "I don't hate you!" "I don't have anything against you!" "I'm sorry for the mean things I've said!" when you know they are lying through their teeth about it. She looks like a child, and a very ill-behaved one at that. It was a ridiculous exchange, but frankly I sided with Rachel on this one because I thought it was crappy of Vanessa to start it all. I really appreciated both of the guys trying to stop it, too. I just cannot stand Vanessa and as Rattus said above, I'll take whiny over mean any day.