I think a better example would be Ray & Deana or even Ron & Kelly. With A&H, Aaron was actually likeable. He was laid back, humorous, and seemed to have fun most of the way. Hayden was the complete opposite, a stressed out screaming mess. Ray & Deana OTOH, were always bickering and yelling at one another.
It amazes me how many couples still go on these shows to test their relationship and see if its meant to be. Since when was AR a good way to test a relationship?