I bolded the first paragraph as this is primarily my focus. Let me preface the following by saying,
I'm truly not angry just making a point. I just think assumptions and generalizations are dangerous avenues.
I'm really curious and actually more puzzled as to how any of that is valid. I am southern to the very marrow of my bones, however, without hearing me speak, or reading my response to questions such as this, I feel pretty confident that you couldn't even begin to make a guess as to my heritage based on how I present myself, think, act or move. While I know people who may fit some specific attribute of the typical southern stereotypes, seldom do they fit them all and often very few. Also, there are many very positive parts of the southern stereotype that I wish would never diminish and are rarely mentioned. I've actually had some interesting experiences with people based on their perception of southerners which was based on this type thinking. While living in the mid-west, one of the funniest conversations I think I've ever had took place as a result of this very thing. We were at a gathering and I was engaged in conversation with a number of folks. I can't even remember the topic of conversation, however, we had only been chatting for a few minutes when one of the women said "I would never guess you are southern." My response was that she obviously didn't know very many. When I asked her why she would say that, her answer was directly related to the very things you mentioned. Southerners are just as varied in their attitude, ideals, actions and movement as any other area of the country. I think I probably understand the point that was being attempted, I just don't think it really holds water.
I think I probably could have just answered with the last couple of sentences, however, since I've already typed this whole thing it's staying.
